Are We Still Willing to Make Sacrifices for Our Children?

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Looking through my archives, I can’t contribute evidence that I’ve ever written end for end my paternal grandmother.  The oversight shouldn’t be surprising, it’s tempestuous to draw a line between Harriet Spear and urbanism, mete it’s still a shame.  She lived a life that shouldn’t exist forgotten.  Today, I’ve institute a way to draw the family, but first I need to usher in her.

My grandmother was born in the far advanced years of the 19th century in the oil rural of West Virginia.  Her race later moved across the Ohio River to a petty Ohio town that I still give one of my spiritual homes.   At mature years 21, she married my grandfather in the downtown meeting-house known throughout the region for its double pointed belfry.  The young couple moved into a neat little house a few blocks from downtown.

At epoch 23, she left the town, touching west while pregnant with my uncle, with the hope that Arizona would have existence therapeutic for my grandfather’s tuberculosis.

Double-steepled ecclesiastical body

At age 26, she continued her emotion west, this time while pregnant with my father, to live with group of genera in Los Angeles while my grandpapa battled his tuberculosis in a sanatorium.

A year later, she was widowed.   While I knew the timeline of my grandfather’s sooner than intended passing, it took my wife to varnish in the picture for me.  A month later her 27th birthday, my grandmother was infectious a cross-country railroad trip under which circumstances caring for two little boys, a six-month original and a three-year old.  My grandfather’s visible form was in a casket in the baggage car heading for burial in the Ohio thorp where they’d wed.  It must have been a desolate trip by reason of her.

After the funeral, she returned to Los Angeles, laboring as a seamstress while helping her youngest brother master his degree in pharmacology.  Eventually, the sum of ~ units of them opened a drugstore in a thorp west of Los Angeles.  Her brother managed the pharmacy oblique while she ran the soda fountain for the remainder of her acting life.

First home

But her loyal focus was ensuring that her pair sons would live better, more careless lives than she had.  She scrimped at whatever time she could, investing the funds in pedantic -chip stocks, and married a maintainer time for reasons that may get been more about security than disposition.

She was successful in her goal.  Both sons graduated from the University of California with degrees in engineering and went on to long successful careers and adroit lives, to her great pride and pleasure.

I remember my grandmother as an austere woman who could be intimidating to a suckling, but who could show a glint of sly humor in the secret place of her eye.  I have an opinion I would have adored her in my adulthood, for example my sense of humor grew to marry hers, but in the way of multiplied grandparents, she departed not long later than I reached my majority.

I pr~ this short biography because it connects to a discussion that I recently posed to Chuck Marohn of StrongTowns.

Marohn conducted a webinar last week, specifically inviting folks who had attended meetings for the period of the January StrongTowns/Urban3 visit to the North Bay.  After giving a compendium of the Curbside Chat, he opened the put a ~ on for questions.  I posed a judicial that was roughly, “Accepting that the StrongTowns shape can mean eschewing short-term, even supposing false, prosperity in favor of lingering-term financial sustainability, how do we convince voters and elected officials to gain the short-term sacrifice for the prolix-term good?”

Marohn chose to define my question as implying that in that place were no short-term benefits from the StrongTowns pattern and dedicated his response to noting the commerce and property tax benefits that have power to quickly accrue from citizen actions to further bicycling and walkability.

I agree with his point and admit that I could be delivered of posed my question more artfully.

But I to this time think my question touched upon which should be a key concern to urbanists.  Is this collection of those of nearly the same age of parents as willing to sacrifice to leave a better world in spite of the next generation?  I’m not aphorism that this generation needs to dress in ashes and sackcloth, but perhaps to forgo a not many consumer goods, dining experiences or rove plans that the false prosperity of drivable suburbia strength have given them.

Let me put out a hypothetical question.  Imagine a clan, headed by a breadwinner who works in configuration, living in a typical drivable suburban increase.  Now imagine that they’re given a election between two possibilities.

The breadwinner could prevail upon three weeks of tenant improvement toil on a nearby street, with the road then becoming an active retail district, giving the family a walkable destination despite food and other goods.

Or the breadwinner could induce a solid year of full-time work, including overtime, on a regional pleading-house being built at the edge of town.  The family would still want to drive to shopping, but would bring forth enough income to take a couple-week European vacation.

Which future would chiefly families choose?  If the families had ~t one concept of the StrongTowns argument, I guess that the overwhelming majority would make choice of Europe over walkable retail.

If the families could subsist induced to listen attentively to the StrongTowns reasoning about the eventual decline of the regional shaded walk, the enduring value of the nearness retail, and the future effect attached their town, I suspect that some would change their position, but in all probability not many.  Instead, many would detect ways to justify disbelieving the StrongTowns subject-matter.

In contrast, how do I regard my grandmother, if she were however alive, would respond to the StrongTowns argument?  I think she’d hold a session Marohn down on an antimacassar bedecked floral cover up, listen actively, pose good questions, and hereafter decide, because it would leave a more appropriate world for her sons, to become an urbanist and to support the district retail.

And that’s the crux of the debate I’m trying to frame.  I alarm that, unlike earlier generations, too great number folks are willing to put their avow immediate well-being over the lingering-term well-being of their children.  And, admitting that that fear is legitimate, the StrongTowns reasoning becomes a tough, near impossible, barter.

I know I seem like a curmudgeon when I write this, sniping concerning young folks.  And I’d honestly like to be proven wrong.  But I’ve had overmuch many conversations about urbanism with average folks on the street to ignore my concern.

However, I’m interested in the thoughts of others.  Is StrongTowns one impossible sell because we don’t care enough near the finances at City Hall 25 years from now, instead giving priority to our possess financial prosperity, no matter how double-tongued it may be?

Some may beseech about my own credentials on the thesis.  Having no children, I may not be a valid data point.  But I regard a passel of nieces and nephews at once stretching into a second generation.  And I care greatly surrounding them, enough to live in a semi-walkable location, with plans to bring forward downtown when circumstances permit, and to exhaust time preaching the gospel of urbanism.

I regard my grandmother would give me a momentary grade.  And that makes me skilful.

In my next project, I’ll set down about the High Line in New York City.  I love the project, but fear that it has distorted our spectre of the possible.

As always, your questions or comments desire be appreciated.  Please comment unbecoming or email me.  And acknowledgments for reading. – Dave Alden (davealden53@comcast.clear)

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